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09/05/2014

Get to know Bonan Wedding Rituals

The 12,000 Bonan people in China live mainly in Gansu Province, and are one of the country's smallest ethnic minorities. As Muslims, the Bonan have close cultural ties with the Hui ethnic minority. The dialect they speak belongs to the Mongolian branch of the Altaic language family China vacation deals.

The monogamous Bonan culture has many courtship and marriage rituals.

A Bonan wedding usually takes place on a Sunday morning according to the Hui calendar. Under the matchmaker's guidance, upon arriving at his bride's house the groom pays his respects to the maternal elders. The bride's father then announces the start of the formal wedding ceremony, using the groom's "pet" name. The Imam chants from the Alcoran and showers people watching the ceremony through the window with a plateful of red dates and walnuts, which symbolize happiness. This windfall of tasty tit-bits encourages spectators to give their blessings to the newlyweds.

When the convivial merriment subsides, the bride's family invites wedding guests to sit at the table arranged on the top of the kang (heatable brick bed top China tours). Young male residents of the bride's village then appear and ask the groom's family and guests for "lamb money." If dissatisfied with the amount received, they plaster the guests' faces with black ash. A free-for-all then ensues, in which relatives of both the bride and groom blacken one another's faces as they exchange congratulations.

The bride prepares to set out for her husband's house when the wedding is in full swing. Before she leaves the young men from her village ask the matchmaker for "lamb money." He makes a great show of giving little or none, which raises another storm of merriment. The ritual ends when he relents and hands over the cash.

An elderly relative or family friend of the bride performs the send-off ritual. Carrying a plate of five-color corn in her right hand, she and the bride walk slowly, hand-in-hand from the bride's bedroom to the gate. At each step the bride sprinkles a handful corn in a prayer for blessings on her family. Upon reaching the gate, the veiled bride mounts a horse and heads for the groom's house popular China tour package.

As the procession approaches its destination, the bride's elder brother meets her. He and the groom's relatives make a show of obstructing the bride's nuptial procession, another ritual enjoyed by all.

As relatives and friends sit and enjoy the dishes served at the nuptial banquet, the bride refuses to eat a bite for three days. Tradition demands that she wait for the food that her family sends her. The ritual ensures that the bride never forgets the love and kindness her parents lavished on her in bearing and bringing her up.

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